Yes. I cried on the plane home. Repeatedly. Downright bawled when I saw my beautiful mountains again. |
I'm home.
In America.
In case you'd missed that part.
It's been almost two weeks and admittedly, I'm getting awkwarder by the day.
Still saying things like "I'm freuing myself" and "I totally schaffed that" and expecting people to understand me.
Still asking my parents for help with my iphone.
Still going through quark withdrawals (though greek yogurt has helped).
Still missing the benefits of weekly planning.
Still somewhat terrified to talk to people my own age.
Still going through shock every time I go into a building because of freezing air conditioning (which most people enjoy apparently).
Still asking how many Euros something costs.
However, the adreneline rushes I used to get from checking my email are gone and technology is starting to become routine again.
So things come and go in their own time.
Life will be normal again.
I loved my mission.
Obviously.
It will forever be a huge part of me because my faith makes me who I am.
I'll still be counting the blessings for the time God gave me to serve His children in a century. Okay, maybe I won't be alive in a century, but someone will be reaping the blessings still.
For those of you that want to keep following my much-less-than-exciting-non-missionary life, I'll be keeping my normal blog again (http://clairemw.blogspot.com/) so you are welcome to look at that when you are avoiding homework, chores, mending your socks, cleaning out the cellar, or other undesirable activities.
A smattering of you wondered if you could have my homecoming talk so I thought I'd just post it here. It's not everything I said, but a rough draft. Rough like sandpaper.
I’m really excited to be here with you today! I spent the
last eighteen months serving as a missionary in the Germany Berlin Mission,
which covers the entire northern half of Germany. There were about 250
missionaries in our mission-about 70 of those were sisters. This is the fifth
Sunday in a row where I’ve been permitted to give my testimony during sacrament
meeting, though this is the first of four different locations where I’ve been
permitted (or rather expected) to talk in English. Please forgive me if I
briefly pause to frantically recall words I’ve used too much in German to
remember their English counterparts.
I loved teaching so many incredibly different people from
all over the world in Germany—our crazy Africans that called us “you people,”
our brilliant and curious Chinese students, our destitute and humble Eastern
Europeans, our stubborn and deep feeling Germans. I met with people from
Poland, Ukraine, Africa, Russia. Serbia, England, America, Fiji, Iran, Iraq,
Turkey, Chile, Columbia, Venezuela, China, Vietnam, Brazil, India, Italy, and
Pakistan. Regardless of our differing circumstances, I know we all need the
Gospel more than anything else.
I get to share a little bit of what I’ve learned and
experienced with you today in relation to my missionary purpose and the fourth
article of faith. Which is….to invite others to come unto Christ by helping
them receive the restored Gospel of Jesus Christ through faith, repentance,
baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and enduring to the end.
Active belief in these things, namely in the Gospel,
requires a lot of pushing, a lot of energy, a lot of our souls—even our whole
souls. Energy to believe on something you can’t touch or see or even understand
completely but only feel. Energy to change yourself, to not only retire from sin
but to leave it behind forever, to turn from being a good person to a better
person. Energy to make and keep promises with God to follow Him so we can be
worthy of the Spirit.
I wanted to share a story I shared with a lot of people on
my mission about this task of pushing.
PUSH (pray until something happens)
There once was a man who was asleep one night in his cabin
when suddenly his room filled with light and the Saviour appeared to him.
The Lord told him He had a work for him to do, and showed
him a large rock explaining that he was to push against the rock with all his
might. This the man did, and for many days he toiled from sunup to sundown; his
shoulder set squarely against the cold massive surface of the rock, pushing
with all his might. Each night the man returned to his cabin sore and worn out,
feeling his whole day had been spent in vain.
Seeing that the man showed signs of discouragement, Satan
decided to enter the picture - placing thoughts in the man's mind, such as
``Why kill yourself over this?, you're never going to move it!'' or ``Boy,
you've been at it a long time and you haven't even scratched the surface!''
etc. giving the man the impression the task was impossible and the man was an
unworthy servant because he wasn't moving the massive stone.
These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man and he
started to ease up in his efforts. ``Why kill myself?'' he thought. ``I'll just
put in my time putting forth just the minimum of effort and that will be good
enough.'' And this he did or at least planned on doing until, one day, he
decided to take his troubles to the Lord.
``Lord,'' he said, ``I have labored hard and long in Your
service, putting forth all my strength to do that which You have asked of me.
Yet after all this time, I have not even budged that rock even half a
millimeter. What is wrong? Why am I failing?''
To this the Lord responded compassionately, ``My friend,
when long ago I asked you to serve Me and you accepted, I told you to push
against the rock with all your strength and that you have done. But never once
did I mention to you that I expected you to move it. At least not by yourself.
Your task was to push. And now you come to Me, your strength spent, thinking
that you have failed, ready to quit. But is this really so? Look at yourself.
Your arms are strong and muscled; your back sinewed and brown. Your hands are calloused
from constant pressure and your legs have become massive and hard. Through
opposition you have grown much and your ability now far surpasses that which
you used to have. Yet still, you haven't succeeded in moving the rock; and you
come to Me now with a heavy heart and your strength spent. I, my friend will
move the rock. Your calling was to be obedient and push, and to exercise your
faith and trust in My wisdom, and this you have done.''
Sometimes we end up moving things as we push with all our
might, as we test our faith. But the movement isn’t the most important part.
Missions are hard because we do an awful lot of pushing and running around and
often don’t see a lot of movement. A story from a sister I knew serving in
Rostock sums that up. The work was going really slowly for her and her
companion, despite their ardent pushing. They hadn’t found new people to teach
in many weeks but they had prayed and fasted to find someone new who was ready
to accept their message about Jesus Christ.
They did indeed find someone shortly thereafter and they
were so excited to go visit them at the appointed time and place. After
traveling o'er hill and mountain in pouring rain to reach their appointment,
they discovered a false address had been given, without a phone number to boot.
And so as they tried to put on a tough face, they went to a nearby park, sat on
the swings, and cried in the rain.
That is a missionary story for you. Not a magical miracle.
But a "life happens" one. But
faith doesn’t end on swing sets, it keeps going past the rain and keeps
pushing. Which is what these sisters did as they strived to relay even more on
the Atonement of Christ to carry them. My mom sent me an article on my mission from
Betsy VanDenBerghe, who had served a mission in Brazil a couple of decades ago.
She remembers, “The dynamic currents of religious experience passing through
your being often lapse into doldrums, particularly in mission life, where every
inch of spiritual enlightenment must be paid for in miles of endurance. A
disinterested populace, indifferent investigators, companionships issues,
less-than perfect mission leaders, fatigue, and most of all, our own inner
demons ensure that the faith of LDS missionaries is not born of…blissful
stupidity…rather it’s a faith born of gut wrenching prayers, intensive study,
and inner transformations only God could empower. Otherwise, who would do
this?”
So now that I’ve intimidated you with some of the hard times
of a mission, let me tell you every ounce of effort was worth it. I loved my
mission with my whole heart and the transformations I saw in myself and others
were heaven-sent.
I loved my mission largely because of the miracles I saw and
the deep joy that came from sharing the restored Gospel.
One of my miracle people was a student from Africa named
Chako, who I met at the beginning of my mission when I was serving in Leipzig.
Now, I taught a lot of Africans on my mission, but Chako was the very first
one and he was special. We had actually
contacted his roommate first and then his roommate told him we were giving out
free bibles in any language so he called us asking to meet. We excitedly met
with him for the first time and shared the precious story of Joseph Smith and
explained the Book of Mormon. He listened very attentively and reflected the
whole time asking questions here and there. At the end of our lesson, he looked
reflectively at the Book of Mormon and then met our eyes and said, “You have
given me a golden book.”
Chako was a great example of faith for me; he was one who felt the truth of the
Gospel and wanted to bind himself to that truth as soon as possible.
I remember walking home after that first lesson with him
with my companion and just beaming. It had just rained and there was a double
rainbow over the bridge we walked across and it was one of those really
beautiful, sacred moments of my mission, where I knew God was God and this was
His work.
So sometimes our faith leads us through rainbows. Sometimes
it leads us through rainstorms. But it leads us ultimately to peace.
As hard as change is, we have peace when we exercise our
faith and do what God wants us to do. I love the German word for
repentance—umkehr. It literally means to turn around. We have to stop doing
wrong and start doing good. I love how Elder Bednar describes it, “Repentance
is a principle of hope and healing—not of discouragement and despair.”
When we hold to that hope, it is natural to want to join
Christ’s church by being baptized, by keeping our promises with him we made at
baptism so that we can always have the Holy Ghost with us—the special part of
the Godhead who can dwell with us at all times.
I loved the switch when investigators stopped saying “your
church” but rather “our church.” I loved seeing ward members welcome visitors
and our investigators feeling like they were home when they were at church. I
loved seeing people develop relationships with God, especially those who
previously had no religious background. We taught a Chinese student in Berlin
named Annie, who said her first prayer with us. She spoke for a long time in
Chinese and then said Amen and then looked at us a little sheepishly. She asked
if we understand Chinese and when we replied no, she sighed in relief and said
good because she was telling god secrets and basically pouring out her heart.
To someone she didn’t even know was there. That is faith. And that relationship
with our Heavenly Father is at the core of our religion. I think we should all
pour a little more of heart out to Him and share a few more secrets with Him.
It all goes back to love in the end—love of God. His love
for us and our love for him. (1 Nephi 11:22)
I think people go on missions for a lot of different
reasons. And people join the church for a lot of different reasons. And I think
that’s okay. But I believe that ultimately, we stay on missions, we stay active
in the church, we keep pushing, because of the love of God. That’s partially
why I left last year, but it’s entirely why I stayed. Elder Holland said, “No
worthy accomplishment has ever come easy.” And it was definitely worth it.
Joan of Arc wrote, “Every man gives his life for what he
believes. Every woman gives her life for what she believes. Sometimes people
believe in little or nothing, and yet they give their lives to that little or
nothing. One life is all we have and we live it as we believe in living it and
then it's gone.”
So I’m my life to this big thing, no matter how hard it may
be, no matter what questions I may have. Because I know it’s true.
This is true joy—to live the Gospel with constant influxes
in life as we try to maintain and develop faith, repent, are baptized, and
follow the Holy Ghost. I love it. It helps me live life in crescendo, relying
on my Savior Jesus Christ, who is the high priest of good things to come, the
author and finisher of our faith and of our joy.